How To Be Kinky Is A Primer On The Multifaceted World Of Kink And Getting Into BDSM Play It Is For Beginners And Novices, Couples And Singles Here, Morpheous Tackles Topics That Arent Regularly Addressed In Other Sex Etiquette Books Most Books On BDSM Lean Heavily Towards Clinical Issues And Tools Techniques There Are Books On Being A Top Or A Bottom, But The Wide Spectrum Of Human Dynamics In BDSM Play Is Not CoveredThis Beginners Guide Addresses All Aspects Of Enhancing Your Sex Life With Kinky Play Singles And Couples Who Are New To The Scene Will Appreciate Material On The Basics Of BDSM Play And Role Playing, How To Turn Your Bedroom Into A Den Of Iniquity, Discovering Kinky Uses For Common Household Objects, Proper Protocols And Etiquette At Fetish Events, The Physiological And Psychological Aspects Of Pleasure And Pain, And How To Maintain Physical And Emotional Safety During PlayThis Enhanced Second Edition Is Reworked In Full Color, With Gorgeous And Sexy Photographs, As Well As Easy To Follow Photo Essays Communication, Fun, And Safety Are At The Forefront Of This Top Selling Beginner S Guide, And Once Youve Finished Youll Be Wondering How To Be Kinkier


7 thoughts on “How to Be Kinky: A Beginner's Guide to BDSM

  1. Altbayer Altbayer says:

    We are a couple married for almost 40 years and bought this book as a bedtime lecture When taking a glance into the book, we found the text well suited for beginners with a lot of down to earth information and practical how to tips We found it very positive that the rather explicit and numerous photos show normal people and not the ubiquitous glossy photographs of flawless models lavishly worked over with Photoshop.Most of the photos in this book show people almost covered with tattoos and with rather weird piercings It is a matter of taste, some people may find this arousing, others not Also many photos show lesbian and gay play, which some people may find exciting, some not as for example we.As a source of inspiration and excitement for players with some practical experience we find this book not so good


  2. ian ian says:

    bought this with it sucessor and both boks well written and easy to understand, gave me many points to discuss with my partner and have had many hours of fun trying out some new ideas


  3. A. Customer A. Customer says:

    This book is a very useful primer for terminology and methods used within the BDSM community at large a nice toe in to the door You ll learn just enough to get an idea of a bit of the potential paths the common, less hardcore fetish kink that you could take, to set you exploring and figuring out where you would like to take it.The down side is that it has a heavy bias towards extroversion parties, clubs, socializing in the BDSM fetish community, increasingly downplaying introverted, private expressions of play as less desirable to party life, particularly as the book wore on towards the end The result for me personally was intense stress, and being turned off and repelled from something that has great meaning to me so if you re looking for something to broach the topic with a lover that is introverted and less the social butterfly or exhibitionist, I do advise caution and much communication try reading it together to buffer it, or you ll loose them at a fragile deciding moment.I will definitely be reading his other books, but it takes extreme effort to overcome that personality type barrier.


  4. James R. Holland James R. Holland says:

    This book is exactly what the title claims It s definitely for newbies looking to add a little spice to the bedroom and or basement The author recommends that readers take your time to learn what gets you hot and bothered and rest assured that just because you like a little bit of tie me up with some slap and tickle in the bedroom doesn t necessarily mean you will give up your day job and start wearing leather 24 7 The sex educator author of this tome, further wants to encourage others to explore their sexuality in a safe way without fear of reprisal, guilt, or shame either with one partner, or several, or solo Flirt with your urges and explore The author, Morpheous, who is also a Toronto based fetish photographer artist has illustrated this beginner s guide book with many of his own pictures Those images are relaxed than most fetish photography in that the models are all having a good time smiling, giggling, smirking and enjoying their role playing This is a big improvement over the usual images that are designed to illustrate and reinforce the erotic aspects of fantasies of pain, punishment, fear and suffering This is also a realist portrayal of the activities detailed in this volume The writing style has a touch of Toronto to it and that s a good thing One of the unusual chapters is a step by step guide for the reader and his partner to safely visit a professional Dominatrix or Domina as well as exploring the non professional scene This is an excellent guide for those people who will quickly discover that they only want to add a little kink as a form of foreplay to their normal sexual relationships There are so many kinds of kinky activities including theatrical role playing and a whole universe of desirable, very sexy fetish fashions to collect that people in long term relationships will greatly enhance their traditional love life Practicing a little fetish adds some spark to what may have become routine.It provides lots of opportunities throughout the day for planning and dreaming up the next exciting fantasy session s It encourages new forms of creativity and communication That kind of full time anticipation makes the love making itself infinitely satisfying A little hidden bruise, hickey, scratch mark or extra tender nipple from an earlier love making session provides constant reminders of the previous night s bliss.


  5. carissa carissa says:

    I absolutely love this book,it explores not only the many different aspects of BDSM lifestyle,it also goes into terms and definitions to widen your understanding of them.I am somewhat experienced in this lifestyle,but there was alot i hadn t yet explored and this book introduced me to them.it helps you understand what you need to do to have and maintain the kind of kinky relationship you want,weather it be just sometimes to spice it up,or as of a continuous role play,what i also like about this book is there are picture illustrations, and its fun to read,other books like this ive bought have been way to scientific for my boyfriend whom im introducing to this lifestyle to read,this book is much fun,and easy to read,easing you into it,not throwing you in the middle of it i recommend this book to anyone who is new to this and wants to explore it,or maybe to someone who has a partner they are looking to introduce to it,or even to somewhat experienced individuals who are just looking to understand ,its an all around awesome book two thumbs up


  6. JennMarie JennMarie says:

    Book 2 of 3 thus far, fabulous read, borrowed a copy, bought a copy, and just bought a second copy for a friend I enjoy Morpheous and his keen eye for the artistic display of BDSM and have learned a good bit from all his publications and would very much like to catch him in conference one day A good book for those looking to learn about the lifestyle for personal knowledge or simply research aspects.


  7. Kat Kat says:

    I feel that this book is a great introduction to the world of BDSM This book gets readers used to the idea of and reassures them that they are not alone in their quest for kink With useful tips, tricks, and how to s, this book is a good read for beginners looking to find reliable information, real accounts, and reassurance in knowing that they are not alone in their pleasures.